Time To Prove

Have you ever wondered why some moments of your life need to remain private before they unfold?
In today's episode, host Gaby Alessi opens up about the sacred "proving time" in her relationship, drawing a beautiful analogy between life and making bread. She shares personal insights into the wisdom of keeping certain moments protected until they are ready to be revealed. Gaby shares her recent engagement experience, providing a heartfelt explanation of why she and her fiancé chose to keep their relationship under wraps, likening their journey to letting dough rise—protected and covered until its time to shine. She highlights the importance of allowing relationships or new ventures the space to grow and mature away from the scrutiny of the public eye.
Join Gaby in this reflective devotional as she prays for wisdom to embrace each season of life, whether it's a time for privacy or for sharing your joys with the world, and to trust in God's perfect timing.
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You're listening to the My Morning Devotional podcast, episode 1212. Today's Devo is called Time to Prove. Hey there. We're the Alessies, a ministry family working together in our church in Miami, Florida.
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Well, welcome back, everybody. This is Gabby, your host for the week. And yesterday I tried my best to explain the story as, as quickly as I could. Obviously there's so many layers to it and there's a lot that happened. If you have not heard, I am engaged and it's been super exciting. And my fiance and I, Christian, we have been dating for the past year and a half. And so it's been really fun to share this story and the engagement story with everybody and finally be open and with that, you know, I know a lot of people, they commented or they texted me or even at church on Sunday. It was funny. Even in our own church, they came to me and they're like, we didn't even know you were dating. And so I have a lot of people questioning or just wondering they're curious about, you know, why do we keep that covered? Why is it something that in our relationship we don't share? Why didn't I post about it? Why didn't I tell a lot of people? And so I felt like this could be a good time to talk about it on the podcast because, you know, a lot of people can see it as private and they see it as we're keeping something hidden. When I see it as we're keeping something protected and we're keeping something covered.
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And I see it as, you know, when you're making bread and you're making the dough of, of bread, when you put like yeast in the bread and you put all like the first ingredients, One of the first steps to do when you're making this dough is to let it rise.
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And in order for it to rise, you have to cover it and put it in a either dark room or in a room temperature room in order for it to prove.
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Now the proving stage is to see if the ingredients in the bread, what you just put together and then the elements in the room and covering it. You need to see if the bread is able to rise on its own. You need to see if the bread has what it takes to go through the proving Process, the rising process. And if it rises, then you can continue to make it bread.
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It's not really bread yet. It's still just dough. It's not at the finished product yet. You can't put just yeast, water, flour into the oven just yet. It has to prove itself through that time in order for it to become a beautiful loaf of bread that we can enjoy and just carb up on.
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And what that or what that takes is a covering process, a proving process. And that especially if you're a baker and you've made bread a lot, there are certain parts of the environment and the element that. That that dough is in. There are things in the air that the dough is not prepared for. The dough cannot receive yet. So it needs to be covered. And so the same is true when it comes to how we saw our dating relationship.
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You know, we started dating October 2023, and we fell hard instantly. We fell in love with each other really quickly. It didn't take long for us to. To know we were it for each other. We've known each other our whole lives. We have a picture of us as babies. We were four years old and it was like his fourth year or his four, his fourth birthday party, excuse me. And we were together in that photo. So we've known each other a long time, but we didn't really know one another in that way. We've known of each other, but we didn't really know each other. And so Christian and I had to take time covered with the right people knowing. Our parents, our pastors, our leaders, you know, the right people knowing. But we had to take a season where we were covered in order to prove ourselves and in order for us to see if our relationship and our dynamic and just the two of us alone without the. The. I think you could say the limelight or. I don't even want to say that, but like the leadership and the authority that we have in our church or even the following that we might have on. On social media, even with this devotional. We wanted to see if we were able to prove ourselves without all of those things. And we were able to sustain and actually become something and rise as a couple and rise to the occasion without having the stage and the attention and everybody looking at us. And so that's why we felt like we needed to be covered and we needed to cover our relationship in that season. And it reminds me of this verse in ecclesiastes. It's
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